Friday 1 May 2009

Getting an Ex Back When You Were the One Who Dumped Him

Getting an ex back is hard if you were the one being dumped. But imagine how you would feel if you were the one who did the dumping? That is the position that Amy found herself in and she had to go about getting an ex back.

Amy’s so called friend Reese told her that her boyfriend James had been sleeping with another woman. Without verifying the information or even asking James about it, Amy confronted him and accused him of having an affair. This took James by complete surprise because he had no inkling that the rumor was circulating and he didn’t do a good job of defending himself. Amy unceremoniously dumped him.

A few days later, Amy found out that Reese had been lying for her own jealous, petty reasons. Now Amy really was in a difficulty. Getting an ex back was important to her, but she also wanted to save face.

Amy called up James and explained what had happened. But James was in no mood to take her back. Amy had hurt him by not trusting him and not even talking things over with him.

Getting an ex back took all of Amy’s wiles.

First of all, she wrote James a long letter of apology. She took responsibility for what happened and promised that it would never happen again. She reminded him that they had a long history together and that they had shared some beautiful times. She said that she didn’t want to throw all of that away. She told him that the reason she acted the way she did was because she loved him and couldn’t stand the though of his being with another woman. The thought of losing him forever was painful.

After she had mailed the letter, she didn’t bother him with constant texts or phone calls. She figured that getting an ex back after a situation like this one required that she give James his space.

When she did run into James, she was as nice as she could be. She worked positive memories into the conversation casually. She didn’t apologize any further though. She had told him both in person and in writing that she was sorry and let it go at that.

One day, Amy got tickets for James’ favorite band which was in town for one concert only. She asked him to go with her “just as friends.” In this way, she opened the door to a future relationship without crowding him.

Getting an ex back after you have behaved badly and dumped him is difficult. Not only do you have the embarrassment of having to apologize, but you almost have to start from scratch again on the relationship. Rebuilding the trust is a key component in this period.

James and Amy did eventually get back together. James came to see that Amy’s outburst was the act of a jealous woman who deeply loved him. He saw it as a mistake that they could both grow from. Their relationship became stronger than ever.

Amy took the right approach to getting an ex back and so can you.

17 comments:

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  11. shana writes: I am Shana, wants to say a big thank you thank you thank you to Dr Eromosele spell for everything . To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonies of other people at this website and after I talked to Dr Eromosele who answered all my questions and was very nice and sincere about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Dr Eromosele about it, he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get my lover back to me and stay with me and even marry me.As soon as he casted the spells,within two days my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Eromosele said would happen. He’s always there when you need him,you can contact him via email eromosalelovespell@outlook.com,so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it. you can also call (Dr Eromosele) on +2347034673139.

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  12. My Name is Emil.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Us the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com.Once Again His Email Address Is: agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com



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  13. My heart is full of happiness since Dr. Odion put a smile on face again by bringing the man i love most back in my life after paying for the items he use in casting the spell that brought back to me and i now believe love spell exist contact him via odionspelltemple@gmail.com or call him via +234805692230 also WhatsApp him with same number for quick response to solve your relationship or marriage today once again Dr. Odion i'm grateful for your help.

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  14. With great respect and honor to a real spell caster Dr Ukaka who restored back my husband after a fight with him i contact him for a love spell and he cast it for me with-in the rang of 48hours, and my husband was back home all thanks to him plz my advise is for you all who have the same problem to contact him via freedomlovespell@hotmail.com or call +2348133873774 web site freedomlovespelltemple.yolasite.com

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  15. I am Tanya and i will would love to use this medium to thank and to let the world know there solution home in tense of relationship problems. At first when i read some comment about Dr.Ekpiku on the internet i never believed that this was real but at the same time i decided to give him a trial. I must say that i was surprise that through the help of Dr.Ekpiku that my lover came back to me begging me to accept him back. With this i was convenience that Dr.Ekpiku powers are genie and helpful to humanity. That is the more reason i am going to drop Dr.Ekpiku contact information which are Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com Once again i am very much grateful to Dr.Ekpiku.

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  16. I AM ASTONISHED ON HOW DR.MACK201@GMAIL.COM BROUGHT MY EX LOVER BACK JUST IN 3 DAYS.

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  17. It got to a stage in my life i felt it was impossible for me to get lousa back cause she left me heartbroken and to a guy who was far younger and richer than me. After meeting so many spell casters and no result i felt cheated and vowed never to try and spellcaster again in my life and i am ment to be a looser for the rest of my life.until my friend john contacted me and told me about prophet ogidi and finally convince me to contact him. after a week i decided to give him a try and suprisingly within 3days i got the results i have been looking for after many months of seaching my angel came back and lit my life up once again i am finally a happy man.to also get help with your life email at miraclecenter110@gmail.com or whatsapp
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    It got to a stage in my life i felt it was impossible for me to get lousa back cause she left me heartbroken and to a guy who was far younger and richer than me. After meeting so many spell casters and no result i felt cheated and vowed never to try and spellcaster again in my life and i am ment to be a looser for the rest of my life.until my friend john contacted me and told me about prophet ogidi and finally convince me to contact him. after a week i decided to give him a try and suprisingly within 3days i got the results i have been looking for after many months of seaching my angel came back and lit my life up once again i am finally a happy man.to also get help with your life email at miraclecenter110@gmail.com or whatsapp
    +2348182260982 and i promise you will also share your own testimony

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