Trying to get your boyfriend back can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you'll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever.
Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. The state of your mind after break up often prevents us making the right decisions and we end up acting hastily. Most times we should follow the 'counterintuitive path'. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool
instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it. This is acting counterintuitively.
As a warning, the techniques you're about to discover you may have never seen before and
at first glance may look and feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective
in even what seems the most complicated situations.
Counterintuitive Technique #1
The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so. You're probably questioning how exactly this will help you right now given that what you want is not to let go of your ex. Keep reading and you will find out.
It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've been trying constantly to talk to (which may appear as nagging) them about getting back together.
Counterintuitive Technique #2
The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You're probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.
By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique.
Counterintuitive Technique #3
The next step is to plan an event where you two can reconnect. But there are many
critical steps in between you can not leave out! Discover all the counterintuitive
and unconventional steps to get your boyfriend back at:
makingupnotbreakingup.com
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